10 Tips for Solo Travel in Foreign Cities

There was a fantastic Twitter discussion last week hosted by Tweeter “solotravler” where people gave tips to each other about travelling alone.  Tweeters came up with innovative suggestions for travelers to explore new places solo.  It gave me pause to think about some of my own travel experiences.

My solo travel is usually the result of me trying to piggy back on my husband Matt’s business trips to Europe.  I always try to accompany him so I can spend several hours at a time with him catching up on things at home.  He knows that I would fly around the world just to spend a day or two with him anytime!  Many times the schedule and airfares demand we fly through Paris on his way to his other destinations so sometimes I jump off in Paris and hang out until he comes back through.  Gal pal Lisa “poodles on over” to join me – unless I get 24 hours notice (which happens quite a bit) and she is otherwise engaged. 

Many times when Matt is on business we are technically together, but in reality he will work from the time we land until the time we leave so I am a solo traveler for all intents and purposes.  My favorite spots if I have to be alone are Paris, France and Oberammergau, Germany.  Paris for the people watching, and museums and Oberammergau for the beauty and ease of seeing many other cities from there.  My least favorite were Oslo, Norway and Athens, Greece.  Oslo because it was too expensive and the people were the least friendly and Greece because everyone hustles you, especially the taxi drivers who push the meter up if you aren’t looking.  The hotels will yell at them for you when you arrive and you should refuse to pay more than the going rate because they have cheated on the fare so you won’t be out any money, just patience.  It just left a bad taste in my mouth that in all its majesty the Acropolis could not take away. 

Here are my strategies for safe and successful explorations of new cities solo:

1.  Always contact someone you personally know who has been there before and ask them definite “must-sees” but also find out what they would personally not waste time doing if they had to do it again and why.  Their reasons “why” may be different from yours.  Do not ask someone who’s idea of great art is Madame Tussaud’s Wax Museum for recommendations for art galleries in Milan.  Catch my drift?

2.  Web search your destinations ahead of time, print out maps, have two different routes planned and know the public transportation options ahead of time.  Carry enough cash to get you into a cab when safety is an issue, especially at night.  Nothing says you are a tourist more than a big old map on the corner of the street, making you a target for the wrong sorts of helpers so commit your route to memory and consult the map only when necessary and do it discreetly or walk into a shop and ask for help.

3.  Engage the help of the front desk at the hotel.  Be frank that you are traveling alone and would like recommendations from them as to where a great place for you to perch yourself for meals that will enable you to observe the locals without any hassles.  They are usually a wealth of information and will steer you away from places that may look great in the brochure, but are tourist traps with pickpockets waiting for you to show up.  If they are helpful to you, please remember to tip them for their kindness.

4.  Take good risks – no one knows you so if you are the type to never ride a scooter, ride a bike, take a Segway or visit a church now is your opportunity.  Think outside your own box.  When I visit foreign countries I am always drawn to their churches as they display some of the greatest examples of architecture and history.  They are free with a bonus of almost always remaining open 7 days a week, 365 days a year!

5.  Take a mini class in cooking from the region or wine tasting to be with other people and have fun learning something from the locals.  Ask those experts teaching what their favorite places are and their favorite activities.

6.  As a young woman travelling alone in Naples, Italy I learned that it was not a good idea to eat out alone after a certain hour.  My husband and I ate at one particular restaurant many times while living there for a bit.  When he left the country, but I had to stay longer, I returned to that same restaurant alone so the local men figured they would like to meet me.  Since we had been familiar faces for a while, the family who ran it asked me where my husband was and when I told them I was living there solo for a bit, they took me under their wing.  They told me to come earlier in the evenings,  made a special table for me where they would keep their eye on me and run off any intruders and I became part of the family.  It was a perfect solution for solo travel in that city.

7.  If you want to meet other travellers, at the first opportunity take an organized tour.  Everyone will be in the same boat, so to speak, so you are bound to meet friendly people to chat with.  Make sure you take tours that are interesting to you in case the only others who are travelling are from countries where they will be using headsets the whole time and unable to communicate with you.  At least you will enjoy what you are viewing even if there is no one to share it with right then.  Bring your own iPod in case the travel back from the tour is filled with loud people not speaking your language and you just want to chill.

8.  Bring a notepad with you.  When you are taking a break alone at a lunch spot, jot down notes of places you were at already and make your plans for the rest of the day.  It will make the time pass quickly when you have no conversation going and your food has not arrived yet.  This is a good time to consult maps for the rest of the day’s excursions.

9.  How to get photos of yourself on a trip when solo…that’s a concern.  Here’s my strategy – look for a family with small kids taking photos themselves.  Offer to take their family portrait, if they’ll take yours.  You need not know their language as the universal holding both hands up to your eyes with the right index finger pulsing like it’s snapping the camera shutter button works every time!  They are less likely to run off with your camera and more likely to be sympathetic to you wanting to document your life.

10.  The first thing I like to do when alone travelling in a city where I do not speak the language and particularly when I can’t guess at the signs, is to get up early in the morning when traffic is light and less people are walking around to distract me; I walk out the hotel in one direction, usually to the right and go to the next block and turn right again and make my way back to the hotel.  This gets my bearings and feeling for the streets programmed into my head.  Then I head out again in a wider circle taking a few blocks at a time, noting where public transportation is and noting local landmarks.

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  • Rachel
    Posted at 12:13h, 07 July Reply

    I had no idea that eating out alone in Naples was a strange thing for a female traveler. Is it unsafe or do people just jump in and start asking a lot of questions? It seems like it brought the best out in people, as they took you under their wing…

    I’d love you to become a member of http://www.PinkPangea.com, a new community for women travelers to get real travel information geared specifically to women.

    It would be great if you could post about your travels around Europe, providing anecdotes and photos from your time abroad. You might also want to provide tips for women travelers who also want to get out there. I’d also be curious – where else should a woman not eat alone at night?

    I look forward to hearing more about your experiences abroad!

    Hope to hear from you soon,


    • Weekend In Paris
      Posted at 21:27h, 25 July Reply

      Dear Rachel,
      Eating alone in Naples is not unsafe per se, it’s more the idea that men will harass you thinking you are easy and available – both of which I was NOT! If a women is one of the two then there will be no problem. It’s just that culturally women don’t eat out alone in Naples. They are on a date, with their spouse or with family. Naples, in general, is not a place where women can wear jewelry – rings, earrings, bracelets. They will be stolen off your body so I did not dare even wear my wedding ring for fear of being mugged so it didn’t help making me a mark for men on a mission. It’s in their genes to chat up a single female in the room – gotta love the Italian men for the ego boost.

  • Margo
    Posted at 22:43h, 16 June Reply

    Great post! I would add that traveling alone is a great opportunity to meet people. Don’t be wary about talking with strangers. Just be smart about it. As a solo traveler, I met my husband, also solo, on a flight from San Francisco to San Diego. I tend to eat at a bar or counter when I’m dining solo. It’s a good way to meet locals or fellow travelers who share info about places to go and things to do.

    • Weekend In Paris
      Posted at 22:57h, 16 June Reply

      Dear Margo,
      I had no idea that’s how you met Rob! Just goes to prove the theory that traveling solo can be great!
      Thanks for the great comments and suggestions. I appreciate you mentioning to be smart about meeting strangers. I always say, “If it doesn’t feel right, pay attention. That’s your Guardian Angel trying to get your attention to warn you to be careful.”
      Also, I completely agree about sitting at the bar to eat when you are solo. You can chit chat, but then ignore and look up at the tv or clue the bartender in if anyone is bugging you. It’s perfect!

  • RedHauteBlue
    Posted at 18:46h, 15 June Reply

    Terrific blog! I’m going to print it out and add it to my travel file!I have traveled alone a great deal and all of your tips are fantasitc – a few I’ve used myself, and a few I will in the future! Great read, I’m looking forward to more! ~ Deborah

    • Weekend In Paris
      Posted at 18:54h, 15 June Reply

      Hi Deborah,
      Thanks for your comments on the blog – so glad it’s useful and you enjoy reading!
      Please also see solotraveler’s blog which you can access from the link on the page here for more tips on solo travel. So many people have to travel solo and don’t get enough out of it. I hope you do and that you share your tips with us!

  • solotraveler
    Posted at 16:31h, 15 June Reply

    This is great. I’m so glad you have contributed to the solo travel conversation.

    I especially like tip #10. Getting your bearings is very important. It can be tricky in some cities like Old Havana or some of the older cities in Greece. This makes it all the more important to do.

    Thanks for sharing,

    • Weekend In Paris
      Posted at 16:42h, 15 June Reply

      Hi Janice,
      I just loved the twitter chat last week and it truly did inspire me to think about how I take for granted that I am comfortable on my own in foreign cities. I wasn’t always as I am cautious by nature, but after pushing myself it became more of a personal challenge to see what I would do alone and I always keep in mind that I may never get a chance to return to that city so make the most of it. I am an extrovert, so it helps.
      Your blog is very useful and makes for “must reading” for those traveling solo!

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